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2003-03-20 - 10:06 a.m. |
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Something wonky is going on with d-land here. All my entries keep double-posting. Quit it. Just handed in my NCAA picks and my one dollar bill to Jimmy Ray. I picked Kentucky to win the whole shebang. Jimmy said he picked Texas because he knew I�d pick Kentucky. I don�t even know what that means. Couldn�t get to sleep last night. Sounds of war, anxiety seeping through the radio, thunder rolling loud and long as the exploding bombs on the radio. Me and Bash, we kept leaping from the bed, from the sound sleep, and then shaking, and then sleeping again. I dreamt the English Department here told me that I had to get my hair cut by a professional (I said, �but I have a friend who cuts my hair!� which was a lie even in the dream but I was too embarrassed to say I cut my own hair) and that I had to show them receipts. The woman talking to me said, everybody does it. I said, I can�t afford that. She said, ok, I�ll pay for it. I said no. And she said, well you can�t work here then. I said, you�re right I can�t and then I stormed out and then I woke up and the rain was so hard and steady, I could hear it fall in my yard like it was falling into a body of water and this morning I see why. My back yard now qualifies as a body of water. And this song, which I haven't heard or thought of since I was sixteen, this song has got itself stuck in my head:
At the lake last night, pre-storm, I thought, I am a warrior, or I want to be a warrior, a lone warrior, righteous and true and without fear and without violence and without sentimentality and silliness and sap. I want the hard truth, the cold truth, the hard love, the cold love, the love that does not want to be safe, that does not want to be trapped, that does not need to name itself. I thought, love got nothing to do with your hurt feelings or your happiness. Just like poetry, I thought. Ok. So then I thought how Timalina said in the car that what every woman wants is a man to talk tenderly to her. She said the man she met who said that, said women need someone to talk tenderly to them, she said that�s the man for her. If a man ever said that to me I would probably gag. That is all that I do not want out of life. Ugh. Never talk tenderly to me. Never ever. Last night at the lake I understood that sentiment is the opposite of love. In my definition, maybe not yours, but in mine, sentiment is the opposite of truth. The natural world is unsentimental and often cruel but always seeded with love. That is what I look for in life. That is why Basho is not my child, I am not nor shall I ever be his momma or mom or any of that bosh. He is my dog. And I am his. He is a grown animal as am I. We walk the roads together. That is all. Why am I saying this? I forget. I forgot. The war is on and the rain will not stop and we are drowning. |
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