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2003-11-25 - 9:08 a.m. |
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My eyes are all swollen and red and mushy from the weeping. I weep and I weep. It�s horrible. I know the whys of the weeping, I understand with my rational brain (little bits are still there, I�m almost sure) that this is a function of hormones, something that happens every goddamned month, but it doesn�t stop it from feeling real and it�s horrible. I have no perspective, everything is monumental, nothing is in its proper place. I feel mad, like crazy mad, like I�m trying, the me me, trying and failing to climb up the crumbling hills of sanity and I can�t. Sanity is a crumbling hill. So I give in and weep and then get angry for the weeping because it�s not me! I want to scream, it�s not me! And then comes Doubt. Is that even true? And here, my old pal, Frustration. I cannot know anymore: is my life really wrong or is this simply my mind playing tricks on me? Or is this really me, just without all my hefty defenses? But then, what am I if not all the tricks and workarounds that I�ve constructed lo these many years? And then I get mad because this writing is such melodramatic and abstract bullshit. Aye, let�s beat up on Molly and her stupid brain some more! Yes! Let's! I was so angry when I got home last night. I was in the grip of the furies. Thank god Jeff didn�t come home until well after I�d finished my walk and had some supper and changed into comfortable clothes. I walked very angrily down to the river with Bash and Peaches and then I played with them and felt a bit healed and then I went into my favorite room in my mind and let myself feel the simple and unambiguous joy of dog love and, this is also true, during this time everything simply feels more and so it was such a pure unadulterated joy, like feeling joy for the first time. That was good. But I can�t stay in that room, not when some other person is about, because I must speak and act like a human capable of communicating with other humans. Poor Jeff. But he is so good�he doesn�t let my crap-ass mood get him down, he is his own person, all solid and true. Thank the heavens. I cried for Frankie who is at the vet getting her female bits snipped out and I bet she's scared and lonely for us. God, let this be over soon. I cannot bear it. P.S. Jeff just called to say nice things. He also said that I'm something worse than a basketcase and he said that I'm a hysterical woman and he said that I'm crazy and insane like all women are. I told him those parts are going on the Internet. Those other parts, the sweet good things, those stay with me. |
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